Sometimes to impress or give weightage, one says something which one does not favour. Why should one pain oneself by doing something one does not enjoy. We do what we like, what we enjoy, what our mind says. No pretensions please! Make yourself free and positive. Let the freeness flow in your body and mind. This attitude will definitely make you happy and in turn you will spread happiness around you.
Yes, sometimes our frankness, freeness, openness may disturb or hurt someone but not for long. But if you lie, if you hide, if you backstab, it will hurt so deep that they cannot recover from it. So do what your heart says and be open about it. Hiding mode, feigning, masking, these build negativeness in you which is very degrading and harmful. So build the spirit of freeness!!!