SORRY - A Beautiful healer

Say sorry without any reservations. Do not let your ego interfere. To err is human and we all are human. Say sorry and get over with it. Long live relationship.

“SORRY” a simple five letter word, so it seems but has in fact loads of emotions. All hesitate to say sorry and if also u utter this word, u don't mean it. After all, there is no value in saying sorry for something that u will repeat again. You should be sorry genuinely and say it from your heart. If wrong has been done by you, knowingly or unknowingly, saying sorry neutralizes and calms your feelings. Immediately a burden gets off from ur heart and you feel free. A message is conveyed that you are sorry for what you did and want to move forward with the relationship.

If you do not say sorry and keep the feelings to yourself, the concealed thoughts often hardens into revenge. And this is the worst emotion one can have. You should grow out of it and move forward to make the relationship strong. Don't let your inflated ego come in between and you go on disguising your feelings to others and end up as a disguised person to yourself. This wisdom you will not receive but you’ve got to discover it all by yourself.

Do you know trust is connected with “saying sorry”? By your wrong deed, you have lost the trust. No one will believe you anymore, thinking you might repeat it again. So when you say sorry you should make your victim believe that you will not repeat it again. And you are really sorry about what you did. Sometimes you say sorry for something You are forced to say or do, but you never wanted to! or you exactly dont mean it.

SORRY is a very beautiful warm word which immediately gives a healing effect to your heart. It soothes your anger and vanishes all the regrets. But still the word has been misused and abused. The word has many times been tossed in the midst of an argument more as a mockery, to show hatred for the other person rather than as a healing gesture. “SORRY” by itself doesn't mean an apology, you will be deceiving yourself by thinking hat by saying sorry you have mended whatever you had broken. Spoken without meaning it, it turns into an empty meaningless word and does nothing for the other party involved, to begin the healing process. If you are genuinely sorry then you have to do a little bit of homework to undo the damage.

One thing is sure, you must understand exactly what you have done to hurt, offend or pain that other person. And to understand that you have to go through introspection. You have to come out of the present situation and look at everything from a new perspective to size up the deeds and damage. And once you realize what exactly your wrong was, you must then don a mindset of humility. May be your pride, ego wont allow you to be sorry, but your humility will spread sincerity and repentance that the other party must see in order to have a hope of forgiving you. So with all the humbleness tell the other party that you will never repeat it again and so will never hurt anyone by your deed. Now you should stick to your promise and be determined not to repeat it. If you can, then in all the true humility and sincerity you can muster, you tell them exactly what you did wrong and how truly sorry you are. So break down your ego or your pride and be humble enough to say you are really sorry. Its a sweet word which without any delay gives you a free feeling and makes the bond stronger, when delivered.

A new mould in 2010...

The year 2009 said good-bye and dimmed off gradually. As always, a new dawn is welcomed. But the metamorphosis for the good taking place in 2009 will continue this year too, the year 2010. I created a beautiful world of my own, which took shape in 2009, and by 2010 it got fully peopled with love and trust, that i had chosen.

Some tragedies that struck a blow, remains finished and the debris lies buried in2009. Only memories creep into 2010.

Over all it was a mixture of good and bad,ugly and sweet, deciet and trust, sorrows and joys. Loosing an old world and creating a new one.


A "NEW ME" begins a new life 2010 onwards. . . . .

Bangalore visit

Change is necessary, otherwise life becomes monotonous. So we decided to go for a change on the eve of 27Th Dec 2009, a visit to Bangalore for a week. Went and returned by bus, the journey was enjoyable and comfortable.

Reached the next morning on 28Th Dec at 9:15. Stayed in a defence mess. Every morning we went out visiting places, shopping and hogging. Returned by night. We also visited Mysore. We celebrated and brought in the New Year(2010) in an Army Club. Me and my daughter danced to our heart's content. Altogether it was fun in galore.

On 1st Jan 2010 we started for Hyderabad and returned on 2nd morning 8:10. The visit gave loads of happiness and a world of change.

The NEW "ME"--- 2010

Some resolutions for d New Year----- to b a more better human being n feel for d whole universe.Gain strength emotionally n not let myself break down. Stay away frm cheats who ruin lives as GOD never blesses them.To live n love in my own terms.I'll try to be happy in other's happiness. To feel free and to do things what i like. Stay detatched emotionally, from people with whom i m not compatible. I,ll live the way i want, bcoz this is my life. Nobody dare mess with me.

Hi!!! those lively and lovely people out there, u'll always find me with you...

Is The Inner Being Really Awakened??. . .

Few weeks back i had read an article in "Times Of India" regarding "A person's conscience." I don't remember the exact content but it was like-- If conscience is GOD then everybody has GOD in them, or is it that some people were absent when GOD was distributing conscience. If GOD gave to everybody then why is it that some are evil-doers. Why did his conscience i.e. GOD make him do wrong things.

To that i say-- Yes, GOD is conscience but this conscience consists of good and bad elements. After giving us our conscience GOD sits back and watches how we tackle our elements.Do we have the strength to suppress our bad elements as and when it wants to come out with. How much capable are we to enhance our good elements by executing good deeds.


Should we be so weak so as to let our bad elements rule our good elements. No, this is where one's strength of character is proven. Can he stop his bad element and let good element come out and work. We should try to be conscientious and do the right thing. Think positive and you are capable of being positive. Let us be good human-being and GOD will bless!

MY FRIEND, INDEED ~~~ Dedicated to my dear friend

As i walk merrily in the path
I can hear the song in the breeze calling my name,
I can see the birds chirping,
Delightfully welcoming me.
The bright sun shning and smiling at me gleefully,
The huge trees swaying, spreading its arms to hug me,
The water in the gushing rivulet taking away all my sadness,
Those romantic flowers of different hues making me feel ecstatic!
Oh! I feel one with the nature

Because one lucky day, he came my way and took away all my sorrows
and set my spirits free,
He came like a vision in the night,
In my deepest, darkest hour he was the light
With his arms wrapped around me led to a world so free.

He is my friend indeed. . . . .
Wish I could sail thru,
Over the sky laiden with golden hue
To my friend I love.
Even in the pouring rain, I can feel his touch, and i turn to say i need him.
His words so true, that kind of prove
My happiness of tomorrow. . . . .

Yes, he is my friend, indeed. . . . .
A friend whom i can never say GOOD-BYE.

FARAWAY

I woke up to find, you are no more mine, no more near me.
Longing ,I groped in the dark ,
Searching ,I stepped out under the stars ,
Far away in the starry night, behind the candle light,
Found you smiling, smiling sadly like a wilted flower,
Sitting lonely, lonely like an island in a vast sea.
I rushed with open arms to embrace you,
But nowhere could I find you.
And I was left in the darkness, standing lonely with sadness,
With the realization that it was my imagination,
I woke up to find you are no more mine,
No more near me. ,

~~~~Composed by me