Enhance your personality by beautifying your inner self….
Everyone aspires to posses an dynamic personality. Looking attractive by enhancing yourself externally is not what you call a good personality. People don’t mind shelling out to join a course, they buy expensive items to enhance their look, they start wearing an attitude etc… With all this you may successfully attract people but not for long. But people go on loving and respecting you, if you are beautiful from within. External beauty fades one day but internal beauty goes on forever and they grow and grow to encompass all human-beings. They are great souls.
When you become beautiful from within, you gain strength, intelligence, freedom, your outer self glows. When these great souls speak, people recognize their greatness, and endear them forever. To have inner beauty you must a deeper understanding of yourself. Once you become self-aware, this will dispel all the ignorance about nature of yourself. And you become accepting and non-judgmental about yourself and others. Once you are aware of your own strengths and weakness and accept them for what they are, the rest follows: YOU HAVE ENTERED THE RHYTHM OF LIFE.
So, you develop your personality not by improving your external appearance but by expanding your capacity to understand yourself and others without judgment. You will then contain the world instead of it containing you. Lastly i would like to say- This change in yourself will make you more confident, ever-loving, exuberant with energy, excitement and cheerfulness. And give you the impetus to live life freely.
Sunday, November 7, 2010
SORRY - A Beautiful healer
Say sorry without any reservations. Do not let your ego interfere. To err is human and we all are human. Say sorry and get over with it. Long live relationship.
“SORRY” a simple five letter word, so it seems but has in fact loads of emotions. All hesitate to say sorry and if also u utter this word, u don't mean it. After all, there is no value in saying sorry for something that u will repeat again. You should be sorry genuinely and say it from your heart. If wrong has been done by you, knowingly or unknowingly, saying sorry neutralizes and calms your feelings. Immediately a burden gets off from ur heart and you feel free. A message is conveyed that you are sorry for what you did and want to move forward with the relationship.
If you do not say sorry and keep the feelings to yourself, the concealed thoughts often hardens into revenge. And this is the worst emotion one can have. You should grow out of it and move forward to make the relationship strong. Don't let your inflated ego come in between and you go on disguising your feelings to others and end up as a disguised person to yourself. This wisdom you will not receive but you’ve got to discover it all by yourself.
Do you know trust is connected with “saying sorry”? By your wrong deed, you have lost the trust. No one will believe you anymore, thinking you might repeat it again. So when you say sorry you should make your victim believe that you will not repeat it again. And you are really sorry about what you did. Sometimes you say sorry for something You are forced to say or do, but you never wanted to! or you exactly dont mean it.
SORRY is a very beautiful warm word which immediately gives a healing effect to your heart. It soothes your anger and vanishes all the regrets. But still the word has been misused and abused. The word has many times been tossed in the midst of an argument more as a mockery, to show hatred for the other person rather than as a healing gesture. “SORRY” by itself doesn't mean an apology, you will be deceiving yourself by thinking hat by saying sorry you have mended whatever you had broken. Spoken without meaning it, it turns into an empty meaningless word and does nothing for the other party involved, to begin the healing process. If you are genuinely sorry then you have to do a little bit of homework to undo the damage.
One thing is sure, you must understand exactly what you have done to hurt, offend or pain that other person. And to understand that you have to go through introspection. You have to come out of the present situation and look at everything from a new perspective to size up the deeds and damage. And once you realize what exactly your wrong was, you must then don a mindset of humility. May be your pride, ego wont allow you to be sorry, but your humility will spread sincerity and repentance that the other party must see in order to have a hope of forgiving you. So with all the humbleness tell the other party that you will never repeat it again and so will never hurt anyone by your deed. Now you should stick to your promise and be determined not to repeat it. If you can, then in all the true humility and sincerity you can muster, you tell them exactly what you did wrong and how truly sorry you are. So break down your ego or your pride and be humble enough to say you are really sorry. Its a sweet word which without any delay gives you a free feeling and makes the bond stronger, when delivered.
“SORRY” a simple five letter word, so it seems but has in fact loads of emotions. All hesitate to say sorry and if also u utter this word, u don't mean it. After all, there is no value in saying sorry for something that u will repeat again. You should be sorry genuinely and say it from your heart. If wrong has been done by you, knowingly or unknowingly, saying sorry neutralizes and calms your feelings. Immediately a burden gets off from ur heart and you feel free. A message is conveyed that you are sorry for what you did and want to move forward with the relationship.
If you do not say sorry and keep the feelings to yourself, the concealed thoughts often hardens into revenge. And this is the worst emotion one can have. You should grow out of it and move forward to make the relationship strong. Don't let your inflated ego come in between and you go on disguising your feelings to others and end up as a disguised person to yourself. This wisdom you will not receive but you’ve got to discover it all by yourself.
Do you know trust is connected with “saying sorry”? By your wrong deed, you have lost the trust. No one will believe you anymore, thinking you might repeat it again. So when you say sorry you should make your victim believe that you will not repeat it again. And you are really sorry about what you did. Sometimes you say sorry for something You are forced to say or do, but you never wanted to! or you exactly dont mean it.
SORRY is a very beautiful warm word which immediately gives a healing effect to your heart. It soothes your anger and vanishes all the regrets. But still the word has been misused and abused. The word has many times been tossed in the midst of an argument more as a mockery, to show hatred for the other person rather than as a healing gesture. “SORRY” by itself doesn't mean an apology, you will be deceiving yourself by thinking hat by saying sorry you have mended whatever you had broken. Spoken without meaning it, it turns into an empty meaningless word and does nothing for the other party involved, to begin the healing process. If you are genuinely sorry then you have to do a little bit of homework to undo the damage.
One thing is sure, you must understand exactly what you have done to hurt, offend or pain that other person. And to understand that you have to go through introspection. You have to come out of the present situation and look at everything from a new perspective to size up the deeds and damage. And once you realize what exactly your wrong was, you must then don a mindset of humility. May be your pride, ego wont allow you to be sorry, but your humility will spread sincerity and repentance that the other party must see in order to have a hope of forgiving you. So with all the humbleness tell the other party that you will never repeat it again and so will never hurt anyone by your deed. Now you should stick to your promise and be determined not to repeat it. If you can, then in all the true humility and sincerity you can muster, you tell them exactly what you did wrong and how truly sorry you are. So break down your ego or your pride and be humble enough to say you are really sorry. Its a sweet word which without any delay gives you a free feeling and makes the bond stronger, when delivered.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
A new mould in 2010...
The year 2009 said good-bye and dimmed off gradually. As always, a new dawn is welcomed. But the metamorphosis for the good taking place in 2009 will continue this year too, the year 2010. I created a beautiful world of my own, which took shape in 2009, and by 2010 it got fully peopled with love and trust, that i had chosen.
Some tragedies that struck a blow, remains finished and the debris lies buried in2009. Only memories creep into 2010.
Over all it was a mixture of good and bad,ugly and sweet, deciet and trust, sorrows and joys. Loosing an old world and creating a new one.
A "NEW ME" begins a new life 2010 onwards. . . . .
Some tragedies that struck a blow, remains finished and the debris lies buried in2009. Only memories creep into 2010.
Over all it was a mixture of good and bad,ugly and sweet, deciet and trust, sorrows and joys. Loosing an old world and creating a new one.
A "NEW ME" begins a new life 2010 onwards. . . . .
Bangalore visit
Change is necessary, otherwise life becomes monotonous. So we decided to go for a change on the eve of 27Th Dec 2009, a visit to Bangalore for a week. Went and returned by bus, the journey was enjoyable and comfortable.
Reached the next morning on 28Th Dec at 9:15. Stayed in a defence mess. Every morning we went out visiting places, shopping and hogging. Returned by night. We also visited Mysore. We celebrated and brought in the New Year(2010) in an Army Club. Me and my daughter danced to our heart's content. Altogether it was fun in galore.
On 1st Jan 2010 we started for Hyderabad and returned on 2nd morning 8:10. The visit gave loads of happiness and a world of change.
Reached the next morning on 28Th Dec at 9:15. Stayed in a defence mess. Every morning we went out visiting places, shopping and hogging. Returned by night. We also visited Mysore. We celebrated and brought in the New Year(2010) in an Army Club. Me and my daughter danced to our heart's content. Altogether it was fun in galore.
On 1st Jan 2010 we started for Hyderabad and returned on 2nd morning 8:10. The visit gave loads of happiness and a world of change.
Sunday, January 3, 2010
The NEW "ME"--- 2010
Some resolutions for d New Year----- to b a more better human being n feel for d whole universe.Gain strength emotionally n not let myself break down. Stay away frm cheats who ruin lives as GOD never blesses them.To live n love in my own terms.I'll try to be happy in other's happiness. To feel free and to do things what i like. Stay detatched emotionally, from people with whom i m not compatible. I,ll live the way i want, bcoz this is my life. Nobody dare mess with me.
Hi!!! those lively and lovely people out there, u'll always find me with you...
Hi!!! those lively and lovely people out there, u'll always find me with you...
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