Say sorry without any reservations. Do not let your ego interfere. To err is human and we all are human. Say sorry and get over with it. Long live relationship.
“SORRY” a simple five letter word, so it seems but has in fact loads of emotions. All hesitate to say sorry and if also u utter this word, u don't mean it. After all, there is no value in saying sorry for something that u will repeat again. You should be sorry genuinely and say it from your heart. If wrong has been done by you, knowingly or unknowingly, saying sorry neutralizes and calms your feelings. Immediately a burden gets off from ur heart and you feel free. A message is conveyed that you are sorry for what you did and want to move forward with the relationship.
If you do not say sorry and keep the feelings to yourself, the concealed thoughts often hardens into revenge. And this is the worst emotion one can have. You should grow out of it and move forward to make the relationship strong. Don't let your inflated ego come in between and you go on disguising your feelings to others and end up as a disguised person to yourself. This wisdom you will not receive but you’ve got to discover it all by yourself.
Do you know trust is connected with “saying sorry”? By your wrong deed, you have lost the trust. No one will believe you anymore, thinking you might repeat it again. So when you say sorry you should make your victim believe that you will not repeat it again. And you are really sorry about what you did. Sometimes you say sorry for something You are forced to say or do, but you never wanted to! or you exactly dont mean it.
SORRY is a very beautiful warm word which immediately gives a healing effect to your heart. It soothes your anger and vanishes all the regrets. But still the word has been misused and abused. The word has many times been tossed in the midst of an argument more as a mockery, to show hatred for the other person rather than as a healing gesture. “SORRY” by itself doesn't mean an apology, you will be deceiving yourself by thinking hat by saying sorry you have mended whatever you had broken. Spoken without meaning it, it turns into an empty meaningless word and does nothing for the other party involved, to begin the healing process. If you are genuinely sorry then you have to do a little bit of homework to undo the damage.
One thing is sure, you must understand exactly what you have done to hurt, offend or pain that other person. And to understand that you have to go through introspection. You have to come out of the present situation and look at everything from a new perspective to size up the deeds and damage. And once you realize what exactly your wrong was, you must then don a mindset of humility. May be your pride, ego wont allow you to be sorry, but your humility will spread sincerity and repentance that the other party must see in order to have a hope of forgiving you. So with all the humbleness tell the other party that you will never repeat it again and so will never hurt anyone by your deed. Now you should stick to your promise and be determined not to repeat it. If you can, then in all the true humility and sincerity you can muster, you tell them exactly what you did wrong and how truly sorry you are. So break down your ego or your pride and be humble enough to say you are really sorry. Its a sweet word which without any delay gives you a free feeling and makes the bond stronger, when delivered.
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